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6erWebb
08-13-2009, 09:27 PM
Alright so I was with this girl for a year and a month, and long story short...CLIFFS? In the final three months she acted weird and hungout with this other guy, who ill get to in a bit, and made me **** being around her so that Id break up with her so she didnt have to do it.

Okay so this guy, hes 25, im 21, shes 20. Hes like 5'5" me and her are both about 6' ( I said it because its neccesary, I **** short men...). She and him had a thing before her and I got together and basically I was her sanity after him. And the whole time we went out she bad mouthed him. Then I started talking to my ex before her, cant remember why now, so she started talking to him I guess to get closure of why he didnt like her or somthing. Well I quit talking to my ex because...well theres a reason she my ex, but she kept talkin to him and they started hangin out...like alot, ended up with him more times a week than me. When Id make a deal about it she would blow it off denying anything was going on.

Turns out she cheated on me a month before we broke up, and once we did she started f^*!ing him on a regular basis telling her friends that they were basically a couple. Only one of our mutual friends told me she over heard him tell her he didnt want anything more from her than sex. so basically she left me now shes getting used but doesnt see it.

Anyway this whole thing has enfuriated me for the last couple months. She texted me once before asking how I was and I basically blew her off, and last night she sees me at the fair with this great looking german chick who was all up on this and txtd me today saying she was sorry she hurt me and we had this big backhanded "your a whore", "your a dick" conversation and basically ended it with have a good life. For some reason she wants me in her life and shes told me before that she really liked the idea of being with me as a friend but I cant see myself being friends with a bitch who would do that to someone. But for some reason my mind is having second thoughts...like my head wants to be friends or somthing, i dunno

Input? no?

rubadub
08-13-2009, 10:26 PM
**** to say it cause I've had those second thoughts myself friend, but let her go. She's too young to know what she wants, she obviously doesn't know when she has a good thing, and she's already cheated on you once, so chances are she'd have no problems doing it again.

Avoid the drama I say. Burning some bridges isn't a bad thing.

tonyguy
08-13-2009, 10:51 PM
^^ x2. Move on. Women come and go.

implayaz9
08-13-2009, 11:02 PM
I used to be in the same situation.. the only difference was she cheated on me with my best friend.. move on man.. U will always find better. Trust me its coming from a guy who usually gets attached to women easily..lol

6erWebb
08-13-2009, 11:13 PM
thanks for the advice guys sometimes I need to be rooted on, these women get ahold of me a little too easy.

Tuck&Poke
08-13-2009, 11:33 PM
i learned my lessons a few years ago, bitches come and go, sometimes you gotta be an asshole in this world.

BADwayz
08-14-2009, 01:59 AM
What the fuck do you need input about? You couldn't keep her happy enough so she got some from the ex....now go find some viagra or a penis pump and a new breezy and call it a day. Your welcome.

SofaKingCG2
08-14-2009, 08:26 AM
+1

But really girls are nothing but lieing, cheating, cock fiending, little critters. Call em as you see em. Haha, you ever hear the saying one man's trash is another man's treasure. It's great to see that come into play with girls.

But just move on. I was kinda like that with my ex. But then she got too trashy for me to even hang out with.

Pswirley
08-14-2009, 08:58 AM
http://i188.photobucket.com/albums/z279/pswirley/rolling/rolling001.jpg

Ducks
08-14-2009, 10:29 AM
As long as they don't have there shit together .. they aren't worth it ..

B Rod
08-14-2009, 11:06 AM
Dude, those 2nd thoughts about maybe wanting to be friends, if I'm not mistaken, are deep down feelings of hope that it would lead to you guys getting back together. Save yourself from the anger and depression and just let her go. The more you don't have to think about, see, talk to, or hear her, the better. Just keep busy and any time you have 2nd thoughts again, remember she cheated on you with the loser she's still "with".

You said she's getting taken advantage of and doesn't know it. Don't let her do that to you.

vdubkid
08-14-2009, 11:19 AM
Avoid the drama I say. Burning some bridges isn't a bad thing.

This.

SofaKingCG2
08-14-2009, 11:46 AM
This.

But remember ther's a danger in starting a fire. You'll never know how many bridges you burn.

vdubkid
08-14-2009, 11:53 AM
But remember ther's a danger in starting a fire. You'll never know how many bridges you burn.

Yeah I'm kind of in the same situation. I was friends with my ex's friends long before we started dating. But since we broke up I haven't heard a peep out of them. They all live together, and two of them are dating my friends...

Tuck&Poke
08-17-2009, 09:06 AM
Yeah I'm kind of in the same situation. I was friends with my ex's friends long before we started dating. But since we broke up I haven't heard a peep out of them. They all live together, and two of them are dating my friends...

not saying its you but, that's why i don't shit where i eat, to avoid bullshit like that

Nelson
08-17-2009, 09:15 AM
lots of fish in the sea, i've been cheated on twice, now I found a girl who loves me more then anything.

ray ban
08-17-2009, 07:55 PM
yes you will definately find someone better. seeing as how i personally know the wench, id venture to say much better :) hang in there webbsta!!!

Reichy
08-17-2009, 08:31 PM
o man sounds like ur in a hard situation. AS b rod said those second thoughts are deep feelings of hope of getting back together. I have been in this situation a few times. I learnt my leason really quickly. I tried to stay friend with one of my ex's and she ended up turn most of our mutual friends against me when i got a new girlfriend. My advice is to distance yourself from her for awhile and if down the track you think you can handle being friends, do it. if not dont.

6erWebb
08-18-2009, 12:53 AM
^^^ Good advice, its what my heads been telling me and what I think Im going to go with, still now that I dont want it back, I can say i definitly dont want her back, and mostly because Ive realized that even though we got along great and loved eachothers company for awhile, we werent that close. I attribute that to her NOT wanting to open up, TO ANYONE. However it still just plain hurts my feelings to think about what she left me for.

I met up with people tonight that were friends of both of ours...who ditched her when they heard she left me for the douche, they kept testifying to the fact that shes getting used. Just to make it interesting, they asked him if he actually likes her and he told them...ahem..." I like how my dick feels in her"...yea, that cuts to the bone, to know I got left for that. And although I dont want her back Id love to put his dick in a meat grinder, make a dick burger (add ... mayo) force feed it to him, then he'll puke it up, and then Id make him lick it out of the toilet... because people deserve better... people who arent her...

Reichy
08-18-2009, 07:31 AM
Yea man i know what you mean. Nothing hurts more than finding out you have been cheated on.

bimmerguy2582
08-18-2009, 08:18 AM
why do you **** short men? :rofl:rofl:rofl

Digitalwave
08-18-2009, 09:29 AM
Fuck bitches, get money.

And by the way, your profound hatred for the guy she cheated on you with should be directed at her, not him. It was her choice to cheat on you, not his.

6erWebb
08-18-2009, 12:01 PM
I ***** him even before I met her so I continue the hatred, plus she gets some **** too so shes not left out.

Oxer
08-18-2009, 07:22 PM
Disregard Females, Aquire Stance.


I know how you feel, been there, done that..

Exami
08-19-2009, 03:50 AM
Keep her as friend if you have some lonely fridays? :shifty never knows what happens.. but don't take her back..

Oxer
08-19-2009, 04:17 AM
Keep her as friend if you have some lonely fridays? :shifty never knows what happens.. but don't take her back..

I tried that.. a couple of times...

Epic Fail.. :(

B Rod
08-19-2009, 11:50 AM
I tried that.. a couple of times...

Epic Fail.. :(

Seriously. That does NOT work.

s4cr
08-19-2009, 07:20 PM
Seriously. That does NOT work.


it does

SofaKingCG2
08-20-2009, 01:20 PM
+1 it does work. me and my ex got "playful" for close to 6 months after we broke up.

B Rod
08-20-2009, 01:27 PM
+1 it does work. me and my ex got "playful" for close to 6 months after we broke up.

But were you guys just friends, or was it an on and off relationship type of deal? That's what I was saying doesn't work. And especially with a recent ex, it's much more difficult to separate your emotions from the situation.

lespaulman16
08-20-2009, 02:00 PM
disregard females, aquire stance.

qft

dO-bOy
08-23-2009, 06:42 AM
wow i love how people can actually talk maturely about this on a car-based forum. definitely a first for me!

i don't mean to toot my own horn, but i've been lucky enough to never be "screwed over" by a woman and i've dated a few in my lifetime. it just goes to show that there are good apples out there too. but it goes both ways right, lotsa girls bitch about how guys are assholes because alot of guys are!