səˈprēm
09-12-2009, 01:34 AM
now i'm not sexist but i have views that the man should be mainly the worker but still have family time and the wife should be around the house more and do 'family' things and maintain the house, not cook and clean all day every day but be somewhat of a 'typical american mother', thats just how i was raised and thats how my parents were raised.. now i can respect families that dont work this way, but it's really all ive been around my entire life
my dilemma: my girlfriend kicks my ass in every way possible
she makes and always has made more money than me, even in highschool she worked in the ER as something, while i was folding shirts at hollister
she has done and always will do better than me in school
she was originally in school for teaching, then she got a nursing scholarship, but shes blowing nursing out of the water, now she's going to be a something something technician at a hospital, but now she wants to go to school for her masters because she thinks school is so easy... her lowest ever GPA for a semester in her entire life was a 3.94, she still talks about it to this day
i took two years at a college and theres no way i could ever finish
she bought her car in cash up front, ill be paying mine off for a bit
she works out religiously and has since highschool, she was the varsity team captain for soccer when she was a freshmen
i worked out for 6 months and lost all motivation, quit football before 9th grade, and havent joined another sport since (does disc golf count?)
she can cook. i make ramen. sometimes a pizza.. in the pizza oven.
i have a macbook white, she bought a macbook pro
my family will talk to her for hours and ill sit alone in a corner crying bc nobody loves me
my grandma told me shes an amazing influence on me
when we broke up my parents still called her
she works 40+ hours a week, goes to school, goes to the gym, AND babysits her neighbors kids when their parents go out on most saturdays, on top of that, she is starting to learn how to play piano and wants to take up tennis
she can out drive me in golf
she calls me out when i try to win in arguments with my friends over movies or trvial bullshit
when she comes over my cats want to be by her, when i come home from work they act like i dont exist
she knows more about the brewers than i do
she likes to drink non-light beer, i drink amstel light
shes better than me in all of these ways, but we are probably going to get married, as it's been discussed a bit
wtf am i supposed to do? i suck at everything compared to her, and all i want to do is take pictures of cars, work on cars, smoke cigarettes, play xbox 360, make websites, and sit on forums, all day, every day
some day will she get sick of me? will i get sick of her being better than my entire life on a daily basis?
what's a man to do, stanceworks? ride it out? be the sack of shit boyfriend/fiance? find a sack of shit girlfriend/fiance so we can sit around on lovesacs all day together in a shitty apartment? grow a pair and start competing with my own mate?
dont even start with that cool story bro shit either.. this is really bothering me
my dilemma: my girlfriend kicks my ass in every way possible
she makes and always has made more money than me, even in highschool she worked in the ER as something, while i was folding shirts at hollister
she has done and always will do better than me in school
she was originally in school for teaching, then she got a nursing scholarship, but shes blowing nursing out of the water, now she's going to be a something something technician at a hospital, but now she wants to go to school for her masters because she thinks school is so easy... her lowest ever GPA for a semester in her entire life was a 3.94, she still talks about it to this day
i took two years at a college and theres no way i could ever finish
she bought her car in cash up front, ill be paying mine off for a bit
she works out religiously and has since highschool, she was the varsity team captain for soccer when she was a freshmen
i worked out for 6 months and lost all motivation, quit football before 9th grade, and havent joined another sport since (does disc golf count?)
she can cook. i make ramen. sometimes a pizza.. in the pizza oven.
i have a macbook white, she bought a macbook pro
my family will talk to her for hours and ill sit alone in a corner crying bc nobody loves me
my grandma told me shes an amazing influence on me
when we broke up my parents still called her
she works 40+ hours a week, goes to school, goes to the gym, AND babysits her neighbors kids when their parents go out on most saturdays, on top of that, she is starting to learn how to play piano and wants to take up tennis
she can out drive me in golf
she calls me out when i try to win in arguments with my friends over movies or trvial bullshit
when she comes over my cats want to be by her, when i come home from work they act like i dont exist
she knows more about the brewers than i do
she likes to drink non-light beer, i drink amstel light
shes better than me in all of these ways, but we are probably going to get married, as it's been discussed a bit
wtf am i supposed to do? i suck at everything compared to her, and all i want to do is take pictures of cars, work on cars, smoke cigarettes, play xbox 360, make websites, and sit on forums, all day, every day
some day will she get sick of me? will i get sick of her being better than my entire life on a daily basis?
what's a man to do, stanceworks? ride it out? be the sack of shit boyfriend/fiance? find a sack of shit girlfriend/fiance so we can sit around on lovesacs all day together in a shitty apartment? grow a pair and start competing with my own mate?
dont even start with that cool story bro shit either.. this is really bothering me